Olivia, 22, is one of the industry’s highest-paid performers and has seen it all. She recently provided insights regarding true preferences. Both her own and her colleagues’—and the reality may surprise many. According to her, size isn’t everything, and the pressure to satisfy unrealistic expectations is generally unwarranted.
“There’s no way bigger is always better,” Olivia said. “Many of us in this field are short and small. So higher proportions might be a disadvantage—it can be quite unpleasant to shoot.”
So, what is the optimal size for real-life intimacy? Olivia claims that 6.5 inches finds the sweet spot. As for girth, she says, “We don’t want them to be overly girthy. It does not hurt and seems to be the ideal fit. That’s exactly what we desire from our lovers.
She encourages males to quit comparing themselves to the false depictions in adult films, underlining that exaggerated proportions do not reflect real-life tastes. “No girl wants to end up unable to walk just because she’s had s**!” she said, adding a lighter touch.
Her observations are also consistent with studies. According to a 2022 research, women preferred a little bigger size—about 6.4 inches—for casual encounters, but a slightly smaller size (approximately 6.3 inches) for long-term partnerships.
Though the difference is little, it emphasizes a key point: comfort and compatibility are more essential than mere size. Olivia’s message serves as a reality check for people who compare themselves to on-screen standards, reminding them that the “perfect fit” isn’t always extra-large.
So, the next time you’re debating size, remember that it’s all about what feels correct, not what seems exaggerated onscreen.